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by David Yeager
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Every generation looks at the one coming up behind it and sees a problem. The complaints are familiar. Young people are lazy. They are entitled. They are addicted to their phones. They cannot focus. They make terrible decisions. They do not listen. They think they know everything. They have no respect.
**Author:** David Yeager
**Estimated Reading Time:** 45 minutes
**What You'll Learn:** Why young people between the ages of ten and twenty-five are not broken, impulsive, or incompetent. You will discover the science of what actually motivates adolescents, why most well-intentioned programs fail, and how to become the kind of adult who brings out the best in the next generation.
**Who This Book Is For:** Parents, teachers, managers, coaches, mentors, and anyone who has ever felt frustrated, confused, or defeated while trying to help a young person succeed. If you have ever wondered why a teenager ignores your advice, resists your feedback, or seems determined to make terrible decisions, this book will change how you see them and how you show up for them.
Every generation looks at the one coming up behind it and sees a problem. The complaints are familiar. Young people are lazy. They are entitled. They are addicted to their phones. They cannot focus. They make terrible decisions. They do not listen. They think they know everything. They have no respect. These complaints are not new. Adults have been making them for centuries. What is new is the sheer volume of programs, interventions, and strategies designed to fix young people. Schools roll out anti-drug curricula. Parents install monitoring apps. Companies create elaborate onboarding programs for young employees. Governments fund anti-obesity campaigns. Anti-bullying initiatives. Anti-vaping efforts. Anti-everything campaigns. Most of these efforts fail. Some of them make things worse. David Yeager, a developmental psychologist at the University of Texas at Austin, has spent his career studying why. His conclusion is uncomfortable for adults. The problem is not that young people are broken. The problem is that adults keep treating them as if they are. The dominant model in American culture, and in much of the world, is what Yeager calls the neurobiological-incompetence model. This is the belief that young people between the ages of ten and twenty-five are fundamentally incapable of rational thought. Their prefrontal cortices are underdeveloped. Their hormones make them impulsive. Their brains are not finished. Therefore, adults must step in and make decisions for them. Adults must lecture. Adults must warn. Adults must control. This model is scientifically outdated. It is also counterproductive. When you treat young people as incompetent, they notice. And they resent it. They resist. They rebel. Not because their brains are broken, but because they are human beings with a fundamental need for status and respect. The alternative is what Yeager calls the mentor mindset. This is not about being nice. It is not about lowering standards. It is not about becoming a friend instead of an authority figure. The mentor mindset combines high standards with high support. It treats young…
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David Yeager is a researcher and author specializing in adolescent motivation and development. He has conducted extensive studies on how to effectively support and guide young people aged 10-25. Yeager's work focuses on understanding the importance of status and respect in motivating adolescents and young adults. He advocates for a "mentor mindset" approach in interactions with young people. Yeager's research has been applied in educational settings and has influenced thinking on youth motivatio…
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