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by Tiffany Dufu
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Tiffany Dufu was the queen of domesticity. Her spice rack was alphabetized. Her thank-you notes were sent within forty-eight hours of receiving a gift. She remembered birthdays, planned elaborate holiday gatherings, and kept a mental inventory of everything her household needed. She was, by her own description, a Good Housekeeping cover model in the making.
By Tiffany Dufu
**Estimated Reading Time:** 45 minutes
**What You'll Learn:**
- Why the expectation to "do it all" is destroying women's well-being and careers - How to identify what truly matters and let go of everything else - A practical system for dividing household responsibilities equitably - How to build an ecosystem of support at home and at work - Why imperfection is not failure but freedom
**Who This Book Is For:**
This book is for any woman who has ever felt exhausted by the endless juggling act of career, home, and family. It is for the professional who lies awake at night wondering if she remembered to sign the permission slip. It is for the mother who feels guilty for missing a meeting or missing bedtime. It is for anyone ready to question the story they have been told about what it means to be a good woman, a good mother, and a good leader.
Tiffany Dufu was the queen of domesticity. Her spice rack was alphabetized. Her thank-you notes were sent within forty-eight hours of receiving a gift. She remembered birthdays, planned elaborate holiday gatherings, and kept a mental inventory of everything her household needed. She was, by her own description, a Good Housekeeping cover model in the making. She was also an ambitious professional with a demanding career in nonprofit leadership. These two identities, the domestic goddess and the rising executive, were on a collision course. For years, she believed she could sustain both. She believed the story that so many women are told: that with enough organization, enough effort, enough sacrifice, you can have it all. Then she had her first child, and the collision happened. The breaking point came in a moment that will feel familiar to many working mothers. Dufu was preparing for an important business trip. Her husband, Kojo, was capable and willing to help, but she found herself running through an exhaustive mental checklist of everything that needed to happen while she was away. The meals. The laundry. The pediatrician appointment. The birthday party gift. The permission slip. The schedule coordination. The invisible labor that women carry, often without even realizing they are carrying it. She realized that she was not just managing her own responsibilities. She was managing everyone else's. She was the project manager of her family's entire life, and the mental load was crushing her. This book is the story of what happened when she decided to put down that load. It is not a book about giving up. It is a book about giving over. It is about recognizing that the expectation to do everything perfectly is not a badge of honor but a trap. It is…
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