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Something strange has happened over the last forty years. Women have gained access to nearly every opportunity that was once denied to them. They earn advanced degrees at rates that exceed men. They lead corporations, argue before the Supreme Court, run for president, and shape public policy. They have more choices about career, marriage, children, and lifestyle than any generation of women in history.
**Author:** Marcus Buckingham
**Estimated Reading Time:** 45 minutes
**What You'll Learn:**
Why women's happiness has declined over the past four decades despite unprecedented opportunities, how the pursuit of balance is undermining fulfillment, and how to build a life around your strongest moments rather than societal expectations.
**Who This Book Is For:**
Women who feel stretched thin by competing demands, anyone who suspects that having more choices hasn't made life better, and readers who want a practical framework for identifying what truly energizes them and building a life around those discoveries.
Something strange has happened over the last forty years. Women have gained access to nearly every opportunity that was once denied to them. They earn advanced degrees at rates that exceed men. They lead corporations, argue before the Supreme Court, run for president, and shape public policy. They have more choices about career, marriage, children, and lifestyle than any generation of women in history. And yet, by almost every measure, women are less happy than they were forty years ago. They are less happy than men. They are less happy than their mothers were at the same age, despite having far more options. This decline holds true across every demographic category: married and single, employed and stay-at-home, with children and without, highly educated and not. This is not a small statistical blip. It is a consistent, well-documented trend that appears in study after study, across countries and cultures. Something about the way women are living now is not working. The standard explanations fall short. It is not simply that women face persistent inequality, though they do. It is not merely that the demands of work and family are overwhelming, though they often are. It is not just that society sends conflicting messages about what women should want, though that is certainly true. The deeper problem is that women have been taught to pursue the wrong things in the wrong way. The promise was that more choices would lead to more fulfillment. Instead, more choices have led to more confusion, more second-guessing, and more guilt. The promise was that balance would bring peace. Instead, the pursuit of balance has become another source of stress, another standard that is impossible to meet. Marcus Buckingham offers a different approach. Rather than asking women to try harder, do more, or achieve better balance, he asks a more fundamental question: What actually makes you feel strong? What moments in your life energize you, focus you, and make you feel like the best version of yourself? The answer to that question, he argues, is the key to everything else. When you know what strengthens you, you can make choices that align with who you actually are…
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Get the complete summary in the appA strength is an activity that makes you feel strong, not just something you are good at.
Women's happiness has declined because more choices have created more stress, not more fulfillment.
Stop pursuing balance. Pursue intentional imbalance by creating strong moments in each area of your life.
Practice catch-and-cradle: catch strong moments, cradle them by investigating their sources, celebrate them, and create
Focus on what is working and do more of it. You can never solve a problem on its own terms.
See your partner generously. Benevolent distortion creates a self-fulfilling prophecy of love and support.
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