Love Worth Making

Love Worth Making delves into the subject of sexuality and explores ways to create meaningful and exciting sexual experiences in a long-lasting relationship, based on his experience of over thirty years working with couples, all by focusing on the sexual feelings instead of the techniques.

Being open about what you feel is the key to a happy sexual relationship. We often feel shame or guilt about what causes us pleasure, such as fetishes, fantasies, or particular items. But blocking your stimulants can cause you to lose enjoyment and arousal. Often, this happens in couples when one person can’t share openly what it is that creates satisfaction for them. This is because they are embarrassed or afraid of being misunderstood.

As such, it’s particularly important to first be honest with yourself. Establish your preferences and your boundaries first before you communicate them to your partner.

You are responsible for your arousal, not your partner or anybody else. Acknowledging this is a powerful step towards great sex. Why? As it removes some of the psychological barriers that may stand in the way. Arousal starts from the mind and your perception of the external stimulus. Therefore, learning to live in the moment and find pleasure in our partners is our responsibility, and not theirs.

Be captivated, absorbed, and clear your mind of all outside thoughts during intercourse. Do not let your mind overtake the situation, and be more relaxed instead. This will help you get lost in the moment and focus on your pleasure. And it will, in turn, create a beautiful atmosphere and a great sexual experience for both of you.

To keep a healthy and sexually active relationship, there are certain things to consider. Of course, every couple is different, having their own type of connection and chemistry, but there are a few universal truths, especially when it comes to women. One of them is that they like to feel pursued and desired. After all, who wouldn’t want that? There is a strong connection between chasing a woman and pursuing her to be with you and her level of arousal. As you make your intentions clearer and put in more time and effort to persuade her, she’ll feel desired and noticed, which will in turn make her eventually acknowledge and act on your intentions. However, in a committed relationship, it’s challenging to keep playing these cat and mouse games and thus, keep the flame alive. Sometimes a man gives up on pursuing his woman, as he feels like she is already available to him at all times. In such situations, a woman can try to restrict her man’s access to her a few times, just enough to spark his interest again.…