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Myths and inspiring stories can be comforting, but they are worse than useless for creating change.

Myths and inspiring stories can be comforting, but they are worse than useless for creating change. Feel-good stories fail. The leadership industry often relies on inspirational tales of heroic leaders, but these stories, often inaccurate and incomplete, do little to create real change. They provide temporary emotional uplift but fail to address the systemic issues that perpetuate workplace problems. Inspiration is fleeting, while real change requires sustained effort and concrete action. Stories often lack validity, and their listeners don't bother to fact-check. The focus on inspiration over insight leads to cynicism when reality doesn't match the stories. Focus on facts and evidence. Instead of relying on feel-good narratives, we need to focus on facts, evidence, and data to understand the root causes of leadership failures. This requires a more scientific approach, one that prioritizes measurement and accountability over emotional appeals. Real change requires changing the systems, not just the people. Inspiration does not change the informational environment that people confront. Effective change requires specific, measurable goals, feedback, and positive reinforcement. Inspiration can be harmful. The pursuit of inspiration can lead to unrealistic expectations and a reluctance to accept failure as a learning opportunity. It can also create a sense of moral licensing, where people feel entitled to behave badly after having done something good. Mythologizing leaders makes it harder for ordinary people to see themselves as capable of great things. Learning from failure is often more valuable than learning from success. Sanctimonious talk about leadership can substitute for real action.

The qualities we actually select for and reward in most workplaces are precisely the ones that are unlikely to produce leaders who are good for employees or, for that matter, for long-term organizational performance. Immodesty is common. Despite the emphasis on modesty in leadership literature, many successful leaders exhibit narcissistic traits, including a grandiose sense of self-importance, a lack of empathy, and a desire for excessive admiration. Narcissism is positively correlated with career advancement and higher salaries. Self-promotion is often more effective than modesty in getting noticed and selected for leadership roles. Overconfidence, even when unwarranted, can lead to higher social status and influence. Modesty is often a disadvantage. While modesty may be a desirable trait, it is often not rewarded in the real world. People who are self-effacing and reluctant to promote themselves may be overlooked for leadership positions. Women and minorities, who are often more modest, may face career disadvantages. Self-deprecation is often seen as a sign of insecurity or incompetence. The qualities that get people to the top are often different from the qualities that make them good leaders. Narcissism can…