The Multi-Orgasmic Man

“ So the first thing to do is demystify ejaculation, which is just an involuntary muscle spasm.

“ So the first thing to do is demystify ejaculation, which is just an involuntary muscle spasm. ” e.style.display='none');if(typeof getContentsSections==='function')setTimeout(getContentsSections,50)" /> Orgasm and ejaculation are distinct. Orgasm is a peak emotional and neurological event involving whole-body contractions, elevated heart rate, and intense pleasure — primarily a brain phenomenon. Ejaculation is merely a reflex at the base of the spine that expels semen. The two happen within seconds of each other, so most men confuse them. But Kinsey's research found that over half of preadolescent boys could achieve multiple orgasms before they learned to ejaculate. Lab evidence confirms this. Sexologists Hartman and Fithian tested 33 multi-orgasmic men and found their arousal charts were identical to those of multi-orgasmic women. These men averaged four orgasms per session — one had sixteen. The Taoist practice called Sexual Kung Fu teaches men to separate these two events, allowing orgasm without the energy crash of ejaculation. TAKEAWAY 2

“ The expression 'screwing your brains out' is an accurate description of the stupor that occurs after repeated ejaculation. ” e.style.display='none');if(typeof getContentsSections==='function')setTimeout(getContentsSections,50)" /> Sperm production is expensive. An average ejaculation contains 50 to 250 million sperm cells, each capable of creating half a human being. Your body pours its best resources — hormones, proteins, vitamins, amino acids — into this production. A University of Arizona nematode study reported in the New York Times found that worms allowed to mate without producing sperm lived over 50% longer than those that ejaculated freely. Athletes and artists noticed centuries ago. The Taoists called ejaculation a betrayal of male vitality. The French called it "le petit mort" — the little death. Musicians, prizefighters, and marathon runners have long abstained before performances. According to the Tao, all organs contribute their "orgasmic energy" during ejaculation to create new life — and when procreation isn't the goal, that energy is simply wasted. TAKEAWAY 3

“ Ejaculation can happen only if there is enough energy in the local nerves and enough blood in the local muscles to trigger the muscle spasm. ” e.style.display='none');if(typeof getContentsSections==='function')setTimeout(getContentsSections,50)" /> Breathing controls arousal. Slow, deep belly breathing — expanding the lower abdomen on the inhale, flattening it on the exhale — reduces heart rate and slows the sprint toward ejaculation. Most men breathe shallowly into their chest, especially during arousal. Learning to breathe into the belly like a sleeping newborn is the first step in gaining control. The PC muscle is the master switch. The pubococcygeus muscle stretches from pubic bone to tailbone, encircling the prostate. It's the muscle you clench to stop urinating midstream, and it contracts involuntarily during orgasm. Strengthening it…