Don't Sweat The Small Stuff

Don’t Sweat The Small Stuff (… And It’s All Small Stuff) will keep you from letting the little, stressful things in life, like your email inbox, rushing to trains, and annoying co-workers drive you insane and help you find peace and calm in a stressful world.

Forget relaxation and happiness, right?

That’s for rich people! But you can’t afford that right now, can you? You have to be focused, disciplined, and work hard every day so you can beat the competition.

Hell. No!

That’s what the world wants you to believe, but it’s not one bit true!

Your life is not an emergency. It’s a wonderful experience that only you get to live – and you only get one shot at it. So stop treating every day like you’re driving an ambulance, rushing from one stop to the next, trying to please everyone all the time and cater to all needs.

You’ll only end up overworking yourself and crashing from the stress.

Instead, try to make yourself bored on purpose. Force yourself to not do anything for an hour or two. At first, you’ll be frustrated and crave your smartphone or laptop.

But after a while, you’ll see the freedom and peace it brings to be able to just do nothing for once.

Take a step back, forget about other people’s requests and just follow your own will.

Quit the people pleasing and just do what’s good for you. There is no one to save but yourself, but remember: your life is not an emergency.

Did you ever have one of those days where people seem to just make your life harder on purpose? The officer writes you a parking ticket 1 minute after your parking time is up. The person who packs your shopping bags drops a carton of milk. And the clerk at the post office seems to move extra slow. But just when you’re about to completely lose it, try to put yourself into other people’s shoes. Take the postal clerk’s perspective. What would life look like through his or her eyes right now? Maybe they’ve gotten horrible news in the morning, their uncle died or maybe their partner left them that very day. How would you feel? Would you eagerly sort letters and rush to get people’s packages? Or would you hardly be able to move, because you’re so weighed down by all those heavy thoughts? Imagine instead of having the next angry customer yell at you, they just smile. They patiently wait as you bring them their package with the speed of a turtle. How much happier would that make you? Impressive, right, what a little thought experiment can do… Give others a break when…